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Sunday, November 6, 2022

On my way to school this morning…

 


As I stopped at the red light, I noticed many police cars with the red lights spinning and alerting people that something was going on. I also noticed a big moving truck with three strong men that looked like they were going to carry in the merchandise that was being taken from this house on the corner.

The police were telling the people in the house to come out with their and as the light turned green, I saw that it was a woman and three little children who couldn't have been older than five. They were coming out carrying some bags and their backpacks. Nobody looked happy. The very long faces made me wonder whether they had anywhere to go. There was also an Asian man standing to the right talking to a police officer who was writing things down perhaps for the report that he would have to fill out as soon as he got back to the station.

As I was driving to school, I kept thinking about the scene. Perhaps it was an empty house and this woman and her family or other families might have invaded it to live there because it was a pretty large corner house with two floors. Therefore, it seemed to be quite large. I kept thinking of how this house must have been vacant for several months or years and these people who were homeless decided to take shelter in this home, however, if the house was closed up, of course they had invaded the property.  Not having a place to live when you have children under 5, you do what you have to do to give them shelter and protect them from the rain and the cold. It made me think of some actions that could be taken by owners of buildings that are abandoned and closed out for many years.

Some thoughts that crossed my mind:  they could make a deal with the family and let them stay there until they need the place for whatever they are going to do with the house; even if they sell it to be knocked down, so a building could be put up.

This idea made me realize how many houses and buildings were closed on my way to school and if the owners make some deals allowing people to live in the place, possibly it would be better taken care of. The people living there could pay for electricity and water and try to regain their confidence and finding a job while also preserving the home and having shelter for their family members. I'm not one to judge and that's not my job here but I'm trying to see how people can help others.

Perchance, I would do this if I had an abandoned building because I keep thinking of all the people that I see sleeping on the streets, just suffering from the cold, the rain and the heat having nowhere to go.

As I drove on, I couldn´t get the scene off my mind. What were they going to do now? Where are they going to go? Perhaps, these kids by living in this house were going to school while the mother was trying to make ends meet to put some food on the table. It was sad though to see all those policemen taking these people out of the house. I do realize it's a private property. I do realize that these people did invade the place and perhaps the owner even did speak to them politely asking them to leave and perhaps they didn't want to leave.

Anyhow, it was just something that I was thinking about on my morning commute. Nowadays, there many people are homeless; the numbers have increased in the past four years due to several factors, including the government, the pandemic, businesses bellying up and other people who just abandoned everybody so that they could save their money for the future. But the future isn´t in our hands, is it?

Sometimes you save your money your entire life, then when you die. Either the money just stays in the bank or goes to your family members who have never even called you up to see how you were doing.

Lots of thoughts this morning and it might sound judgmental, but I don't know the word but just a thought so many other serious things happening in this city and here they are worrying about the private house.

 Ah, for instance, something they could worry about fixing: when I was driving, I went by a hole that has been there for at least six months. It's becoming part of the avenue and perhaps when they fix it up, if they ever do, it will be missed. Every morning you have to go around the hole causing traffic jams or causing traffic accidents.

There are other more serious issues in the city like the increase in crime. A week ago, my building was invaded by criminals; underaged boys dressed in school uniforms who had access to the gates. They had hacked the tag used to open the gates, so they got in no questions asked. They used the service elevator which serves all four apartments. They went to the last floor and started coming down the stairs where there are no cameras. The condominium administration is still talking about putting cameras in the stairway which makes me wonder if and when or ever this will happen. Nonetheless, a few weeks before this incident, a neighbor and I decide to put up our own camera in the hall. Actually, there is a smile you're being filmed sign in the hall, alerting people they're being filmed but there were no cameras - as if that would scare people away. Even with cameras we don't scare people away. Anyhow they went down up until the 15th floor by the stairs and they tried to break in some apartments. They also took pictures of the doors probably to bring in better equipment to break in some other day. I came to know that a few of my neighbors have bulletproof doors and it just made me wonder how many expensive things there are in these apartments. I think that one of the most valuable things that I have are my cats and my life, of course. Since I'm at work all day, my cats are alone and if somebody breaks in, of course they're not going to go through the trouble of closing the door on their way out and I'm afraid that the cats will be frightened and run out.

It's very hard to participate in discussions about what to do with the dwellers of my building. There was even a person who lives in my building that said that we should all have guns and just shoot down these kids, these robbers, thieves, burglars whatever you want to call them. That would be so easy, wouldn't it? Just shoot them down. OK, so what about the kids in the building who do go to the same school and wear the same uniform? Do they have to wear bulletproof vests because this crazy neighbor might just shoot them down? I guess I'm just rambling on because this happened on the 18th today is the 27th of October.

On Monday, when I finally turned on my cell phone there were 309 WhatsApp messages from the people who live in my building asking for some explanation and details of what happened; posting pictures of the thieves… (luckily the camera that my neighbor and I own did not have any pictures of the suspects it did have me though leaving the house at 6:00 AM and coming back at 5:00 PM then I thought hey not bad I look good on camera)

Anyhow, it is what it is. One day at a time as I say and try to keep your head up of course. If everybody did what they have to do, the world would be a better place. Times are rough and now I'm starting to ramble on, so I'll just end it here. Thanks for reading.

 

Written: October 27, 2022

Photo: Meire Marion


Tuesday, November 1, 2022

Fantasy World

 


                As I am home resting so that my pain can seize a bit until it is tolerable to go back to work, I am rewatching the Harry Potter movies – all of them. I just happened to turn on the TV and there was a marathon showing. It is a great way to escape from the real world from time to time. HP is a story about true friendship and fighting against evil for the greater good. There are funny moments, sad moments, and even some scary moments – they get me all the time.

                With all the stress that came along with the weekend – presidential elections; spending the day with mom at the ER; driving around the city with all the crazy people – my pain seems to have increased. My doctor always says that I need to live a stress-free life. I aways question him how to do that. No answer, unfortunately.

                Could I have spent the day reading? Could I have watched something else? Could I have slept all day? Sure, I could have done all of that. However, just letting my mind rest by watching this enchanting world, allowed me to get the rest I needed.

Written: October 31, 2022

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Just a thought...

 

                Blindness When your vision is 20/20 is perhaps the worst kind. According to science, when you lose one of your senses, the others become more powerful. However, in this case, if your eyes are working well, your other senses have not strengthened although you are blind to what is happening around you.

                A view depending on where you are looking from is your view; therefore, everyone’s got a different point of view. But how can you explain why so many people believe in their point of view is more important than another´s. What makes your point more accurate as the other´s?

                Sharing our points without trying to make the other see what you see is one possibility. Not judging the other person would be another because everyone sees with their upbringing, background and experience.

                Perhaps, we should all try to see with our hearts and minds and not with our eyes.


Written: October 30, 2022

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