Wednesday, May 8, 2024

Cell Phone Dementia


Did you know there are some syndromes / diseases that affect the elderly nowadays due to technology?

After researching, I discovered the following:

People with psychotic disorders have trouble staying in touch with reality and often cannot handle daily life. The most obvious symptoms are hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that are not real) and delusions (believing things that aren’t true, even when they get the facts).

Television dementia, mostly the elderly, when an elderly person talks to the tv as if the person on the screen were real. Nowadays this also happens with the use of the cell phones. Instead of sending a message, they talk to the picture or the person in the video and believe that the person is live listening to everything they are saying.

I wasn´t aware of this until a friend of mine said her uncle, in his late 80´s, told her he was dating a young girl named Aline who was a hard working young girl and they would talk all day long, which meant she never left the cell phone, didn´t drink water, didn´t eat or even go to the ladies room. He had sent my friend audios telling her the whole story about how he was worried about Aline´s health since she never left the cell phone.

My friend then decided to share the information with her cousin who took the cell phone away from her father. Actually, she just deleted the apps he was using so that he wouldn´t see the girl any longer and eventually forget about her.

When this happened, he sent my friend an audio crying that Aline had died. He knew it would happen because her health was very fragile. He couldn´t believe that the second love of his life (the first one was his wife who had passed 18 years prior to this event) had died. He was going to propose to her.

Some time went by when he sent another audio saying how happy he was that Aline had come back from the dead like Lazurus from the Bible. He had prayed so hard that his prayers were answered. He had asked God to raise her from the dead like God had done in the Bible.

My friend couldn´t believe her ears. She reported it to her cousin who tried to take his phone away, but he had hidden it so she wouldn´t find it. In his last audio to my friend, the uncle had mentioned that he was now dating two girls. He was super happy and had his hands full.

Time went by. My friend always sent him messages, however, he never answered. Desperate to find out what was going on, she called her cousin. The cousin said that she had questioned him about it, and he simple answered that he talked to my friend every day. She was always smiling back at him when he told her about his love life. My friend became a figure stuck in the cell phone just like Aline and his other girlfriend.

I wouldn´t have believed this was true if I hadn´t heard the audios myself. I had no idea that this happened. So, beware when you catch an elderly family member or friend talking to the tv. It could be the start of something more serious.

Written: May 8, 2024

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